Sunday 17 November 2019

My dog as spiritual guide

The first stage in the active hope spiral framework is gratitude. Live in the moment; live a life of gratitude - It is quite easy to say rather than to do. For guidance on this topic I could consult books about saintly types but they are just words words words. A life of gratitude is a practice requiring a change of attitude that is really hard at times. It is one thing being grateful when in the good times like you are on the receiving end of a gift you want or when things just go your way. But being grateful when you're on the losing end, when things don't go your way, when you are in pain or sick or stressed or just tired; that is really hard. Luckily for daily guidance on this I just have to look at my dog.

Our new dog Djilba is excited just to meet my gaze at the start of a new day: expectant, hopeful, looking for the cue for when I'll rise and walk towards the front door which sets him off completely in a frenzy of excitement for his morning walk. Or when I arrive home of an evening, his little tail wagging away and jumping with joy. True, I shouldn't seek to overstate or indeed romanticise the motivation of the basics of a walk and food but away from those moments of pure joy, Djilba exudes the affection of a grateful being and seeks to do everything to please us. At other times he will join me on the couch content to sidle up and be close. A short whistle will have him bounding to come. Surely he doesn't always expect food for enough times a whistle just seeks his presence – and I think that is enough for him. To be wanted, to be close. He doesn't have a poker face – his body language does not betray what is going on inside.

It is tempting to think that a rescue dog such as Djilba should always be grateful for their new life. This assumes he can compare his difficult past against his current life of inner-city luxury – 'he landed in doggie heaven' as Anne says. But I really think he just lives in the moment.  
Our previous dogs, Willow and Bubbles, suffered in their last days but still managed to show affection and gratitude as they always did. They know they were loved and cared for and they responded to this.

Who knows what dogs are really thinking but their outpourings of gratitude are a daily reminder of what is to be present and grateful for the simple things in life. They don't seem to be worried about tomorrow's prospects for a walk or food, just todays. So in response on my active hope journey I have sought to begin my day with a walk to be conscious of being grateful for the moment, for the sunrise, for the beauty around me, for my health and for the opportunities that may come my way in the day ahead. A good start at least.  

Photo: Willow and Bubbles in their latter days - contented and grateful.

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