Wednesday 25 December 2019

Buy nothing Christmas



Despite being awash with the advertising of Christmas, we have decided to have a ‘buy nothing Christmas’ this year. Yes very counter cultural but quite liberating. Of course it brings a new challenge: with what gifts shall I bring?  – a throwback to my little drummer boy days. In that case shall I play my drum for him was the answer, but what is it now? I’ve been mulling this over for some time. Anne has been busy making things as gifts and I could follow her line and make some things but somehow. 
For me it is taking some boys to the beach who don’t often get the chance. My one gift that has made a difference. Their smiles were enough for me.

Sunday 8 December 2019

The alternative economy – seeing with new eyes



Three things passed me by this last week that all centred on the economy. 1. The media analysis of the government quandary that the low interest rates are failing to stimulate growth in consumer spending and that this is a very bad thing. 2. Watching the documentary Tomorrow with friends at the One World Centre  on Friday night; and 3. Richard Rohr’s meditations on Economy: Old and New.

While not new themes to me, the congruence was noticeable. The demands for the economy to be based on perpetual growth is failing and we need to recreate a new economy which values the natural world and safeguards peoples livelihood to prevent a collapse across societies. The excellent doco Tomorrow showed positive examples around the world on 5 dominant themes Agriculture; Energy; Economics; Democracy; and Education. Under Economics there was the example of a French envelope/packaging company that deliberately didn’t pay dividends to shareholders and invested all profits into the wellbeing of staff and the workplace. There wasn’t much difference between the highest and lowest paid workers; they planted four trees for every one tree that was used for making paper; changed to water soluble inks without any toxins; installed solar energy and recycled water amongst many other innovative practices that made working there enjoyable and demand was increasing. There were many other examples of localised and cooperative ventures across all the topics.

From Richard Rohr’s writings: The title of Sharif Abdullah’s book, Creating a World that Works for All, is an invitation to us all to participate. He invites us to a lifelong practice of the better, the art of being a “Mender” who consciously seeks out opportunities to practice interconnection and interdependence with other beings, which are indeed foundational to any new economy. Abdullah writes:Being a Mender, an activist for an inclusive society, is a spiritual discipline. We practice a different kind of spirituality: the spirituality of turbulent times. Working to alleviate suffering is the way we practice our faith. We try not to act from anger or fear. We act because, in this life we have been given, we believe we can help make things better. Acting out of compassion to lessen suffering and improve the lives of others is the way we celebrate the Spirit. Knowing that each of our acts, however small, builds the vitality of the Web of Life brings us joy, satisfaction, and power.
Another great sounding book An Other Kingdom: Departing the Consumer Culture by Peter Block, John McKnight, and Walter Brueggemann describes the shifts in thinking that could create a post-consumer economy. Instead of centralised wealth and power and profits, to be neighbourly, localised communal and cooperative culture.

Such inspirational examples and writings challenge me at the practical level about purchase decisions. My conditioning to buy the cheapest has added to mass production, taking from natural world in the most ‘efficient’ way, eroding worker’s conditions/rights and separating me from the provider. Lots of challenges there.

Sunday 1 December 2019

The Courage of Kindness


It is a conditioning of life especially in my life of a scientist to have an analytical approach – continually assessing and positioning; to be sceptical of any claims or opinions until there is supporting evidence. Certainly this works well in the tasks for my day job but for relationships including those in professional life this approach doesn’t work so well. 

The third stage of the Active Hope spiral is ‘to see with new eyes’. Every now and then I’m reminded of the power of kindness and compassion and to be challenged to see the world through the ‘soft gaze’ of compassion and kindness. But what does it mean to live each day with kindness – is it seeking out someone to provide acts of charity to, some unsuspecting soul that I can provide assistance to? Well that might be the consequence but it is much deeper than that – to see the good in everyone that requires both strength and gentleness and to leave behind any sense of judgement and critiquing as is our modern way. Kindness is having the ability to speak with love, listen with patience and act with compassion. I like the concept of kindness creates a ripple that extends far and wide with no logical end. It may be reflected back but it may just as easily eventually dissipate. We just put it out there with no expectations.

Well I’ve been finding out just how hard it is. One day recently I started the day primed to have that soft gaze of kindness but there it was laid bare soon afterwards on my ride to work when a cyclist directed some unwarranted anger towards me and by instinct I reacted with my hackles raised for that brief interaction. It is one thing to show kindness when all is going well but when poked and provoked can I respond with kindness. Mmm…that takes time to be attentive and persevere.

Paying it forward
In a recent edition of Dumbo Feather there was a focus on the movement to pay it forward. People are encouraged to make random gestures of kindness to strangers. This actually happened to me a little while ago when my lunch time walking crew  ventured to a coffee place in West Perth and were offered a free coffee from someone who had paid for it earlier. I was taken aback but inwardly pleased. I was reminded of the parable of the talents and to use what gifts we have for the benefit of others.

Apparently the neurological studies of kindness and paying it forward clearly show the health benefits and positive well-being impacts.  If it only it was a bit easier…

The Dalai Lama sums it up: This is my simple religion. No need for temples. No need for complicated philosophy. Your own mind, your own heart is the temple. Your philosophy is simple kindness.


Or that other philosopher Dr Seuss adds: Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It’s not.

Kindness as a series of unending ripples.